The Sex Toy Bible: The 15 Best Sex Toys of 2020

Sex toys...everyone is talking about it! Did it arouse your curiosity lately? I mean, after seeing them in the media, all our friends telling us about their experiences and a -oh-so-boring quarantine it’s only natural, we came to ask ourselves the question: is it time to spice thing up?

Maybe you just went through menopause, and you think you now need to have a slightly more boring sex life since it has been made a little less enjoyable, with all your concerns on lubrication (2 words: GET LUBE) and a longer access to orgasm. Or maybe you are just determined to do everything you can to continue to fully enjoy the joys of sex, including experimenting using a sex toy. Or maybe you are an avid sex toy user and you are just looking for something new to add to you amazing collection. Well, no matter where you are in life, showing this kind of curiosity is great news! Sex toys are miraculous little accessories that can indeed offer a fulfilling sexual experience and even perhaps change your whole view on how sex is supposed to be.  Not only are you showing initiative, curiosity and openness, you are also putting your pleasure into your own hands. Well done!

How can you bring it up to your mate?

According to the statistics, it is actually very likely that your partner will not be hostile regarding this subject. Still, it is best to approach the subject with some caution. Let's not forget that a man is often quick to wonder about his own virility as soon as his partner thinks of introducing any sexual novelty! (Toxic masculinity sucks, I know) He may think that you are dissatisfied with him and will now rely solely on your sex toy to achieve orgasm. He might even view the sex toy as competition, almost like a rival … and that’s not really the goal. So what do you do ? You have to be positive, present it to him as a stimulating experience to live together, the opportunity to spice up things, to discover new sensations.

It's your first time…ever?

This is all too new to you? Are you excited but really really scared? No need to go directly for the multifunction model, large size, super impressive dildo! You can  go gradually or get something totally different. You could start by trying a vibrating ring, to be positioned at the base of the penis. The pressure it exerts on the penis strengthens the man's erection, the vibration stimulates the woman's clitoris: there is something for everyone..  so neither of the two partners feels sidelined. Then, why not test a small clitoral vibrator, for example the famous duck? (see below). You can slip it into the hand of your partner and then guide him, accompanying his gestures! If all of this feels good to you, you can finally dare to go for that 14 inches vibrator in the shape of a huge, huge penis. Just remember, playfulness, lightness, no performance objective, this is the state of mind that must surround the use of these naughty toys that wish us good. And if ever it doesn't work, you are just too awkward and embarrassed?  No need to insist and force yourself. It’s just not your thing and that’s okay!

What is a vibrator?

Vibrators, vibrators, vibrators… you see them everywhere! But what are they, really? As the name suggests, the vibrator is meant to vibrate and massage, but not just your neck! This is mainly used to achieve orgasms, alone or for two. The number of vibrations emitted by a vibrator averages 2000 per minute. It can be a perfect companion for solitary sex and even with a partner. Vibrators are also a great way to discover your body and your most intimate erogenous zones. If you don't know them yet, it might be a good idea to buy several vibrators to find the one or ones that are best for you. Vibrators bring sensations for the most part impossible to find with a partner.

How do you use one?

Whether you're single, on the go, or craving some lonely fun, the vibrator is better than your fingers or… nothing. It is relatively easy to use. To stimulate the clitoris, lie on your back or stomach (especially if you are using a vibrating egg) and rub or rotate the vibrator on your clitoris; As for the vaginal vibrator or the rabbit model, it is best used lying on your back and relax completely. Take all the time you need. Don't hesitate to use your finger first to get in the mood, and why not coat it with lubricant (heating if you feel like it) for more fun? Little tip, in the event that your vagina is not sufficiently lubricated, put "water-only" lubricant on your vibrator before inserting it, it will be much more pleasant. Then insert your G-spot vibrator up to about 5 cm and slide it from right to left while listening to your sensations. From time to time, exert more pressure to better reach your G-spot or make more sustained back and forth while increasing the speed of vibration to increase the pleasure. If you stimulate your G-spot enough, you may experience female ejaculation (this also happens with stimulation of the clitoris). So don’t get too scared if you end up soaking wet.

As you discover yourself in this new form of sexual pleasure, you will be able to try new models of vibrators (with other textures or more powerful vibration functions) for more thrills. In short, give free rein to your imagination and let your very first toy surprise you!

Whether you are single or in a relationship, acquiring a vibrator can only benefit your sex life. Sales of sex toys have exploded in recent years and you are about to discover why 😉. But how do you choose the right vibrator? Don’t worry, I made all the research for you so without further ado, here are the best sex toys of 2020. You’re most welcomed.

The Top 15 Sex Toys of 2020

1. The Aphrodite by Opuliss

For two-person or solo use, a non-penetrating vibrator can be an interesting alternative. And here comes the Aphrodite to save the day! With over 10 suction modes it can last up to an hour. (yes, you read that right) This one charges using a USB socket, so no need to change and buy new batteries. (Friendly tip : put it to charge right after cleaning it so it’s always ready to go.) To use it, listen to your desires and sensations, apply it to your most erogenous zones, or let your partner stroke you with this vibrant little thing. If you need clitoral stimulation during penetration to achieve orgasm, you can place it on your clitoris while your partner is inside you.

If this is what you are looking for, don’t hesitate to go for it because it’s on sale right now!

2. Hot Octopuss

For Him, you can get this! (Thank me later) It’s the perfect mix between a masturbation sleeve and a vibrating ring. Remember, more fun for him just means more fun for you. It can be used solo or in team. It will change both your worlds, trust me. It can be used either on a soft or erect penis (yay!) to gently-or furiously- stroke, or it can be put between you and him and pleasure you both at the same time.  Added bonus? It comes with a remote control which means both of you can adjust the vibration and speed to find the whatever feels ~just right.> 

3. I Rub My Duckie

Waterproof vibrators are specially designed for use in water, duh. The most famous of these is the vibrant plastic duck, (I’m sure you’ve seen it) of all colors and sizes. It can be either more luxurious or sometimes more simple, the vibrant duck comes in many different forms but is always a perfect ally for a naughty bath. It comes with 7 different modes, so play around! Charging? Easy- you just need 1 AAA battery (get those now, they are not included). Placed on the clitoris, it helps you get orgasms fairly quickly with all theses good vibrations. Get you some bubbles, add scented candles and throw in a bath bomb and you are in for a sinful treat.

4. The Smart Wand 2

The famous wand also comes in a waterproof version. Mind blown, right? But this is so much more than just a vibrator. It’s a whole body massager for both you and your partner. You can use it on your back, your neck, your thighs and your most intimate regions, there’s no limit to where your imagination and good sensations will take you. All this, during a shower or a bath, alone or with someone. Did I just describe paradise? This is exactly what you need after a long day at work or with the kids. If anyone deserves it, it’s certainly you

5. The Venus Vibrator

Waterproof vibrators are also available in phallus shape, which you can use in water, with or without stimulating your clitoris with the shower jet. The amazing thing with The Venus is that it’s in 2 in 1. It will give you both penetrative pleasure and special attention your clitoris desperately need. You can use it in the shower or in the bath. Try to position your legs differently to hit different pleasure points and create a new experience every time. It’ll be your new best friend, so keep it handy in the bathroom (just make sure not to mix it up with your kids bath toys)

6. Lelo Beads

Penetrating vibrators come in different sizes, shapes and materials. The geisha balls (or also called Ben Wa balls) are placed inside the vagina and vibrate to the rhythm of your movements. Discreet, they can give you orgasms all day long! In addition, they are very useful as part of perineal rehabilitation after childbirth or even simply to strengthen your perineum and make the contractions caused by orgasm are more powerful. How do you use them? You can treat it exactly like a tampon (both for the insertion and removal) but don’t forget to add lube. So strengthening your vagina and giving yourself pleasure? That’s a win-win in my book.

7. The Rabbit

The vibrators called "Rabbit", shaped like a male sex and equipped with a little (adorable) ears allowing clitoral stimulation at the same time as penetration, are also an absolute must in sex toys. That’s why you can find them in almost every sex toy list; they are a favorite and for a good reason! You can use it solo but to spice things up, add it in your routine with your partner. That’s right, you can either make him watch you pleasure yourself or you can let him take on that task and use the toy on you. Grab it fast here! With Amazon Prime you can get it the very next day and get busy.

8. 3 in 1 G-Spot Rabbit

Tried the Rabbit and ready for the next big thing? Boy, do I have something for you...Double penetration vibrators, both vaginal and anal (and those little magical ears for your clitoris of course) can also appeal to the most greedy…but greedy in a good way. See, these are often synonymous with very powerful orgasms. I’m talking earth-shaking, walls spinning orgasms. And no, I’m not kidding, they are possible.  To use it, it’s pretty self-explanatory, start with teasing your asshole slowly and then insert it. Once you are comfortable, do the same with your vagina and you are good to go. Try building to that powerful orgasm by setting the vibrations to a more and more intense setting. Yeah, you’re welcome.

9. The Ringo

It's no secret that male erections don't always last long enough. There are cases where your partner is just so excited that he can’t retain his, hum, enjoyment longer. Others where, on the contrary, his head is elsewhere and get distracted. And of course, those where the female partner needs more time, either because her arousal is slower, or because it's so good that she would like it to last forever ... and a half! This simple, but useful little tool will change both of your lives. One main function of erection rings is to maintain an erection by preventing backflow of blood. They can be used with a pump or during sex. Here’s one of the best on the market…and don’t let the price tag fool you, this really gets the job done. 

10. Pearl Beaded Prolong Ring

Have you already tried the Ringo and are you craving something a bit more elaborate? Give this one a try. Made out of silicone, it is still relatively simple, it has a beaded body which means more pleasurable sensation for both you and him. To use this pearly goodness, it’s the same as any other ring, although it’s best to put it on before the penis is erected and to use lube, as much as you need. A little tip; while your partner is in you, rub yourself up and down, side to side, and in circular motions to use this ring to its full potential.

11. Svakom Tyler

Want to take the rings to the next level? The vibrating ring is a satisfying first couple's sex toy: great for learning about erotic games in pairs. This ring generally offers several intensities for the vibrations, in order to provide maximum pleasure to both the partners. Most of the vibrating rings found on the market are made of silicone, a very soft material that is easy to clean, just like this one. And most commercial vibrating rings are waterproof, which allows for naughty foreplay in the tub, just like this one. Want to make your hubby your dildo and get your clitoris stimulated? Say no more, go get it.

12. Ass Gasm Cockring

Want to drive your man absolutely crazy? Get this one, it’s a butt plug and a cock ring…all for him. Be open to bringing this up to your partner if you’re interested because I’m sure he will love it. The anus and the prostate is a highly erogenous zone for a male. Although a lot of them are anxious about it, it could very well the very beginning to a fulfilling sexual life, and for you too. The great thing with this cock ring is that you both get to experience thrilling sensations together. Oh, did I forget to mention this one also vibrates?

13. Naughty Candy Heart Butt Plug

Because anal penetration is a little less harmless than vaginal penetration, it is advisable to follow a few recommendations. It is necessary to have first prepared your anus by inserting a finger, you can apply lubricant to the plug and insert it very gently. The muscles in the anal area should then relax and tighten around the plug. Then gently turn it and you can push it in a little further. Once inserted, the anal plug is not normally intended for pushing back and forth. As the name suggests, it only plugs in and prepares your anus to receive your partner's member. There are other sex toys that can prepare your anus for anal sex. Want to take your sweetheart candies to the next level? Try these! You get extra points if you use them on Valentine’s day.

14. Bunny Tail Plug

Ready to take on the playboy mansion? Why not go for this classic look? Add in a sexy bunny costume and you are all set! I mean, Halloween is right around the corner and it might be time to spruce up a classic.  Just plug it in, with lube of course, and you are good to go. Easy, right? Why not be even naughtier by wearing it all day long? Think about all you will be feeling with every sway of your hips, every time you go up and down the stairs….mmm need I say more?

15. Hugo

Don’t be that greedy. Get something for your boo too! Try this prostate massager to take him to heaven. It goes in his asshole and on the skin between his asshole and penis (btw, that’s called the perineum). If ever your partner does not feel up to the task just yet, you can simply use it as a massager and tease him all around. Why not blindfold him to make him less self-conscious and more receptive to his sensations? Fun tip: take power and use the remote to control the vibrations, by following his cues of course!

How do you choose the right sex toy?

If you define yourself more as a clitoral, choose a non-penetrating, pebble-shaped vibrator. If you are more sensitive to penetration, choose it phallic-shaped so that you can experience a penetration similar to that experienced during sex. The choice of material, for its part, will depend mainly on your feelings. However, silicone vibrators are preferred, because they are easier to clean, and less irritating than other materials.

Want to give your butt some extra love?

The butt plug was made famous mainly with Paul McCarthy's work "Tree". The inflatable sculpture exhibited in October 2014 at Place Vendôme was supposed to represent a giant tree, but everyone saw there, and rightly so, an anal plug. Since this scandal, the sale of this sex toy has increased. But what exactly is an anal plug? What is its use and how do you put it to good use?

What is an anal plug?

A plug, probably because of its cone shape, allows very gradual penetration . The plug is then formed into a wider base to prevent penetration from being too deep. It is widely used in homosexual games, but not only! It can also spice up sex between a man and a woman. There are different sizes and widths of plugs, different materials (latex, silicone, glass, wood ...) and also plugs with a small vibration mechanism to facilitate muscle relaxation and increase sensations.

Using an anal plug can present certain risks such as tearing of the rectal tissues. So it is crucial to take certain precautions before its insertion. I’ll start with 2 words: MORE LUBE! Also, if it comes in contact with blood, stools or vaginal fluids, the plug can lead to sexually transmitted infections (Bet you didn’t think of that one). It is best not to insert the object into the vagina after inserting it into the anus and to wash it after each use with an anti-bacterial soap.

What is an anal plug used for?

For solo masturbation, the anal plug can stimulate your sensations, because the anal area is intimately connected to the vaginal area. If you use the anal plug with your partner, either inserting it into their anus or yours, you can achieve anal orgasm. Few men know it and dare to practice it, but anal penetration with prostate stimulation produces orgasms, it seems, even more powerful than phallic orgasms.

Inserting an anal plug tightens the muscles of the vagina and if your partner penetrates you at the same time, it will make both of you even more pleasure. Indeed, the double penetration awakens the entire sexual area and amplifies the sensations. As for the man, he can feel the plug on the other side of the membrane of flesh that separates the vagina from the anal canal and this can also increase his pleasure. To practice double penetration, you have to find the ideal position. You can lie on your back, and as a missionary the man inserts both his penis into your vagina and the plug into your anus. You can do the same in other positions such as doggy style, teaspoons and Andromache. Amazing, no?

How to use an anal plug with your partner?

If you insert a butt plug into your partner's anus, the manipulation will be the same as if it would be with you. As seen above, men often ignore it because the practice leads them back to homosexuality, but anal penetration can become a real source of pleasure for them. By stimulating your partner's prostate, you can make him experience extraordinary sensations. It should be discussed with him beforehand and be very gentle and understanding.

2020 does not have to be all bad, buy yourself a little something to make it better, much better.